Sunday, August 24, 2014

36 Glorious Weeks

While my sister, Rachel, was serving a mission my emails to her would often involve the phrase "time flies". Time really has flown and as my due date approaches it seems to go faster and faster. Here is a little update on our lives...

In June, I started working as a temporary employee at a steel foundry in Bettendorf (a neighboring city). I was working full time doing office work and really loved that it gave me something to do. I worked full time until July when I went to CA for 2 weeks (more on CA later). Once I got back from CA, I could barely work a couple hours without feeling like I was going to fall over and die -- that's a little dramatic, but true. Ben told me that I should quit, but I still felt some responsibility to work until I told them I would. I ended up cutting my hours to part time and only working another 2 weeks, instead of the 4 that I was hoping to do. Such is life. Now I spend every afternoon napping and that my friends is exactly what I want to be doing. (Read: There is no need to ask what I do with my days and if I'm bored. I'm not bored. I sleep, I read, I sit quietly on the couch, etc. I love it. I'm enjoying my time without having to care for the every need of another human being.)

Baby update: The baby's room isn't ready, I don't have bags packed, and I still have a list of things that we need to buy, but I also have all the time in the world, so I'm not too concerned. The baby does have a name, but it's not set in stone. She could come out and look like an Alice and that's what we would name her or maybe Mildred or maybe I'll let one of the nurses name her. At my 34 week appointment (Tuesday, 8/12), the baby's heartbeat was great (158), my blood pressure was great (116) and I'm measuring at 32.5 weeks (small, as per usual, but they aren't too concerned because the last ultrasound showed her measuring perfect). The doctor informed me that at this point they won't stop labor once it starts, so here's hoping she comes when she is ready...and maybe that she will be ready early and be 100% healthy and perfect. We got to tour Labor and Delivery at the hospital we are going to and I'm pretty dang excited. It is so nice and they have different laboring options available, birth ball, jetted tub, etc. Will I use any of those? I don't know, but I like knowing that they are there.  I am extremely grateful for the luxuries that we have in this country, especially when it comes to where we deliver babies. What else is new...? The babe moves plenty and last week was the first time I really felt a limb of some sort sticking out. Usually my stomach is just hard whatever way she is leaning, but this was a protruding, bony limb. It was pretty sweet. Ben was asleep though, so he missed it. Sorry Ben. She also gets the hiccups multiple times a day, it's fun because then Ben really gets to feel her move (she tends to flail about when they last long, probably desperate for them to stop). I have my 36 week appointment tomorrow morning, so updates on that will have to wait (I wrote this post weeks ago but was waiting to post it, because it started to interfere with my nap that day. Naps take precedence.)

Now about CA. Rachel finished her 18 month mission in Nashville, TN on July 16th, so I flew out for 2 weeks to spend time with her and the rest of the family in CA. It was so fun to see her and everyone else especially since we aren't spending Christmas with my side of the family this year. We spent lots of time by the pool, going for walks, and enjoying the little bit of time that we had. While I was in CA, Ben's job had him spend 5 days in Brazil! Ben served his mission in Brazil. This was such a great opportunity for him to go back, speak the language and eat delicious food. After Brazil, he came to CA and spent 3 days with us! Ben even agreed that we should move to CA. That was probably the happiest day of my life. Sadly, that won't be happening anytime soon, especially with the 6.1 earthquake that hit right next to my parents' home this morning. I would still choose earthquakes over tornados.

Our 2 year anniversary was last Monday! It has been an amazing 2 years and I'm grateful for all the fun and growth that I have experienced. I couldn't have picked a better person to spend eternity with.  On that sappy note, here is a fun story from the other day. It sums the current stage of our relationship up perfectly. One Sunday, we got home from church and I was going to make sandwiches for lunch. Before I started the sandwiches, I saw that we had a cantaloupe sitting on our counter. I had completely forgotten about it and was thrilled that I noticed it (fruit can be thrilling). I grabbed a knife out of the dishwasher, noticed it had a little something on it, but the dishwasher isn't exactly new, so I wiped it off and started cutting. No big deal, right? Wrong. Ben and I both eat a few pieces of cantaloupe and then I throw it in the fridge to get cold while I make the sandwiches. I pull a couple plates out of the dishwasher and this is where it gets exciting. The plates are dirty. Definitely dirty. The bowls are dirty, the measuring cups are dirty, the cutting board is dirty...you get the idea. EVERYTHING IS DIRTY. Still, no big deal, right? WRONG. The knife that I used to cut the cantaloupe with had been sitting in there for 2 days and the last thing I cut with it was raw chicken. Raw chicken. Mass hysteria ensued (this is a little dramatic, as well). Ben and I were both disgusted and mortified. Usually I start the dishwasher right after dinner, so that it's ready for the next day. Unfortunately, I have the memory of a gold fish right now and had forgotten to start it, then forgot that I didn't start it. Ugh. Of course, Ben had to google what could happen if you consume raw chicken, THEN he had to google what happens when you get Salmonella and you're pregnant. He was not happy with me. The on call nurse said the baby should be fine and to come in if I had any symptoms. Luckily we are all still alive. Since then, Ben has informed me that I'm not to leave our room, that I'm an airhead lately, that I almost killed the whole family, and that he would appreciate it if I could go 6 weeks without any disasters since we have made it this far. I cut my finger while slicing chicken the next day. Whatever.

I hope to post once more before the baby gets here, but I make no promises. If you have any advice on how to kickstart labor, don't hesitate to throw them my way!


Kristen



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Home with Rachel!

Aug 18, 2012

Friday, May 9, 2014

Two Is Better Than One

19 week ultrasound


The only thing better than having one girl in the family is having two (and three girls is better than two, four girls is better than three...you get the picture). We are so so excited to be adding a girl to the family! The only thing that worries me is that Ben and his younger brother Jared were both supposed to be girls. Talk about surprise on the day of delivery. Little baby Brooke turned into little baby Benjamin. Luckily, I think technology has advance in the past 25 years and this baby has a good chance of being a girl. Although we do have a friend that was having a girl at 16 weeks and then found out he was a boy at 20 weeks....here's looking at you, Randee & baby Cooper. Basically, I'm keeping all my receipts just in case our sweet little girl magically turns into a sweet baby boy. I'm pretty sure I would bawl my eyes out. I don't like surprises. I'm a planner. For those of you that are wondering if we have names...we have a couple. Ones like Barbie Dolphin and Bethsheba Bubbles. Obviously it's a work in progress. I feel her move more and more everyday. She moves a lot when I have my laptop on my stomach. My first reaction was something along the lines of "She likes this!". Ben's reaction was more like "What if she doesn't like it? What if you are hurting her?" This is the story of our relationship. I think things are fine, Ben worries, and somehow we are madly in love. As far as how I'm feeling, I'm still taking medication but I try every couple weeks to go off it. The last time I tried to stop taking medication I didn't even make it to the bathroom (less than 2 feet from our bed) and ended up throwing up on top of the toilet seat. I also managed to sneeze and subsequently pee my pants a little bit the other day so every day is an adventure at the Wenzel home. Pregnancy is truly a wondrous thing.  

In other news....my wonderful parents and younger sister Kelsey came out to visit! It was only for a few days, but we had so much fun! It makes me miss living closer to everyone, but it also makes the time we do get to spend together that much sweeter. While they were here we were able to go to Carthage, IL and visit Carthage Jail and also Nauvoo, IL, which is always a great experience. This year is a busy one for our family with Rachel coming home from her mission in July and the baby being born in September, so there will be plenty of opportunities for us to all be together.

Everything else is pretty usual. Ben is busy at work and then comes home to a needy pregnant wife. I just stay at home and try to keep busy. Sometimes I think about finding work through a temp agency, but then I'm lazy and Ben tells me to enjoy my quiet time before the baby gets here...so no job at this point. We are loving the warmer weather, even though we both get ridiculously hot at night and are currently sleeping with 2 fans and the AC, and I can't wait for summer activities in the area to start. 

For those of you that commented on my Facebook post the other day with recipes for dinner, thank you! Since then, I have had a greater resolve for cooking and finding recipes that I wouldn't normally try. Here are some of the recipes that I have cooked within the past couple weeks: Slow Cooker BBQ Ribs from The Girl Who Ate Everything with Memphis-Style Coleslaw from Our Best Bites, Hawaiian-Style Sloppy Joes from Our Best Bites with pineapple (I used the rings from a can, put a little butter and brown sugar in a pan on the stove and let them caramelize. Too good), PF Changs Mongolian Beef Copycat Recipe from Damn Delicious (excuse the blog title...), I have also made a couple delicious homemade pizzas, tonight I'm doing Eggplant Parm, and Sunday I'm trying Cashew Sweet and Sour Pork from Our Best Bites. It's a wonderful food life these days.

Now I'm off to go eat some delicious leftovers and run errands before Ben gets home!

Kristen




Tuesday, March 11, 2014

It's Been Awhile!

I can't believe it is March already! I love it. Because I don't update this blog like I should, this post will cover a few months of Wenzel activity. 

December: Ben graduated from college! The day Ben finished finals we had movers packing up our belongings and our cars were being picked up for transportation to Iowa. For Christmas we went to CA to spend it with my side of the family.  It was magical. As many of you know, CA has had a lack of rain. While this is unfortunate for permanent residents, I was thrilled. We spent our vacation riding bikes, playing at the park, and enjoying blue skies.  A few days after Christmas we flew out to Iowa to spend a couple days with Ben's family before he started his new job at John Deere. 

January: Ben started at Deere and has been enjoying the journey of his new job ever since! I applied for a few jobs, had an interview, and then we found out I was pregnant! I have never been so grateful to be unemployed and not get a job that I interviewed for. And let me clarify, being pregnant does not mean that you can't or shouldn't work, unless you're me. I'll write about the pregnancy in a separate section for those of you who only care to read about that. 

February: I missed all of February. The only noteworthy thing that happened was the ultrasound we had on Valentine's Day! Because I was so sick, the doctor asked that we have an early ultrasound to check for multiple babies or complications.  To our relief there were no complications and the ultrasound showed one little babe.

March: This month has been wonderful.  I haven't thrown up for a week, I attended church for the first time in over a month, and it was 60 degrees out yesterday. We are expecting snow tonight, but yesterday was a great taste of spring!

Pregnancy: We found out we were pregnant shortly after moving to Iowa. I was feeling great until about 5.5 weeks and then I got really sick. Calling it morning sickness would not do it justice. It was 24/7, met my 15 lb. weight loss goal, 5 weeks of despair sickness. We wanted to avoid taking prescription medication but after talking with the doctor and taking into account all my symptoms we decided it was our only option. And the rest is history! Being on medication has been a great blessing for our family. I'm due September 24 and I'll be 12 weeks tomorrow. We are so excited to be starting the 2nd trimester soon. Ben is hoping for a boy, I'm hoping for a puppy, but ultimately we will love whatever we are given.

In other news, Rachel (one of my younger sisters) will be coming home from her mission in July! I'm so excited that all 4 sisters will have a chance to be together again before the baby comes. And I'm excited for a reason to visit CA.  If you haven't kept up with her mission, click here to read her blog!

I hope I can update my blog more often than I have been, but I make no promises. Until next time!

Kristen